‘Honeymooners’
at Woodland much in love
Two couples at the home married for more
than 60 years
Friday December 12, 2003 Natalie Miller
The couple was sitting together on a bench under a canopy of trees in front
of the long-term care home.
An observer couldn’t help but notice the tenderness and
compassion Orin Zummach exuded towards his wife. New to Woodland Villa
at the time, Administrator Jean-Marc Lanoue approached the couple and
learned Orin and Gertrude have been married for 62 years.
“It was love at first sight,” says Orin of meeting
Gertrude.
Orin first met Gertrude’s father at a church convention
but it was actually Gertrude’s sister who introduced the lovebirds.
Gertrude agrees that when she laid eyes on Orin the feelings
were mutual and credits “love at first sight” and her continuing
affection for her husband the bonds that have kept them together.
Orin and Gertrude are one of two couples at the Long Sault
long-term care home who have been married for more than six decades. Orin
just moved into Woodland in October to be closer to his wife. He was commuting
30 minutes daily since she became a resident in August 2002.
Ken and Jean Thompson shared their wedding vows on June 1,
1938. Ken moved into Woodland Villa in October 1999 and Jean joined him
four months later.
Jean-Marc says “it’s humbling” to have the
couples, affectionately called “the honeymooners”, still much
in love and living together.
“It’s special,” he says.
“It’s kind of nice to see people who are still
in love. How many people do you know who have been married for 65 years?”
Aside from missing his wife, Orin was ready to move into Woodland
because, “I’m getting a little feeble. I was tired of washing
dishes,” he says, with a chuckle.
Living with Gertrude is like “a honeymoon all over again.”
When asked how he and Gertrude spend time together at Woodland, he said:
“That’s private.” Publicly, they enjoy dining together
and attending the morning exercise class.
“It’s lovely,” says Gertrude about Orin and
her together. They share a semi-private room, as do Ken and Jean.
Meanwhile, Jean says living with Ken is something she has been
used to for most of her life.
“It’s lovely,” she says. “It’s
always been like that.”
“Nowadays people don’t try (at relationships) but
you (have to) if you love somebody.”
She notes her husband isn’t in as good health as she.
Jean-Marc says, “I think it’s a comfort for her to be with
him.” They spend time together in the lounge, listening to music
and watching TV. “Ken spends most of his time finding Jean,”
says Jean-Marc. “He doesn’t like being away from her for long.”
Jean and Ken spent most of their lives together in Iroquois
and they both worked at the Caldwell Linen Factory there.
Orin and Gertrude lived in Lunenburg. Orin owned and operated
a 700-acre dairy farm operation, which is now run by his son and grandson.
Orin still goes back to check on things but he’s happy in his new
home, with the love of his life.
“I could spend another 60 years with her.”
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